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Albert Ellis and Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) Jeffrey Guterman describes the theory and practice of Albert Ellis's Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) across the following issues: human nature, theory of problem formation, theory of change, and techniques. Topics include the ABC theory, the distinction between rational beliefs and irrational beliefs, and disputing irrational beliefs. See http://www.jeffreyguterman.com for more information. Erratum: About half way through the video (at 04:55), Jeffrey Guterman incorrectly uses the term "irrational beliefs" to refer to "preferences, wishes, hopes, desires, likes, and wants..." when it was his intention to refer to "rational beliefs." Tags: guterman ellis rebt counseling psychotherapy psychology education mental health illness mentalhealth |
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REBT Video No. 1 Activation Event: Evasive Eye Contact and responding to others' smiles without my own smile. Irrational Beliefs: Demanding/Moralizing. Any way of arguing effectively with my irrational beliefs are welcomed by any viewer. Tags: rebt cbt rational emotive behavioral therapy cognitive social anxiety disorder phobia body language depecheeyes |
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Albert Ellis Doing REBT with Jeffrey Guterman Telephonic session held March 8, 1986 demonstrating Albert Ellis identifying ABC's of rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) and disputing irrational beliefs. When this session was held, Jeffrey Guterman was a masters student in counseling and a follower of REBT. He later became a supervisee, colleague, and friend of Albert Ellis. In the 1990s, Guterman shifted to a solution-focused approach and developed his own model called solution-focused counseling; see http://www.jeffreyguterman.com. Here is a transcript from this session: Ellis: Right. But what are you depressed about? Guterman: Well, a series of events. Ellis: Yeah. Guterman: One was I took my car in and I found out I had to, uh, spend over $600. Ellis: Alright, so that's unfortunate, but what are you telling yourself? That it's horrible? Or what? Guterman: Yeah. Pretty much so. Ellis: Right. But you better go back to, "It's a royal pain in the ass, but I could live with it!." Guterman: Well... Ellis: Because you can. Guterman: Huh? Ellis: Because you can. Tags: guterman ellis albertellis rebt counseling psychotherapy psychology education mental health illness mentalhealth |
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Albert Ellis doing REBT with Jeffrey Guterman (expanded) Albert Ellis doing rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) with Jeffrey Guterman during telephone session on March 8, 1986. In the 1990s, Guterman shifted to a solution-focused approach and developed his own model called solution-focused counseling; see http://www.jeffreyguterman.com. This excerpt includes audio commentary in 2006 from Jeffrey Guterman. Here is a portion of the transcript from this session, including some of Guterman's 2006 commentary: {Guterman 2006: Now listen real close, you'll hear the phone ringing at the Institute for Rational-Emotive Therapy. The secretary answers.} Secretary: Institute. Guterman: Hi. I have a Ten o'clock appointment. Ellis: Hello. Guterman: Yes. Doc Ellis. Ellis: Yeah? Guterman: How are you? Ellis: Okay. Want to talk louder? Guterman: Yeah. Jeff Guterman here. Ellis: Yeah. Right. Guterman: Can you hear me okay? Ellis: Yeah. I can hear you fairly well. Guterman: Okay. Um. I have a half hour session? Ellis: Yeah. Guterman: Uh, is there an hour available, if necessary? Ellis: No, I have somebody else who is going to call in from Texas. Guterman: Oh. Okay. {Guterman 2006: I was trying to see if I could get an hour session but I couldn't.} Guterman: Yeah, well I've been hopelessly depressed. Ellis: You've been what? Guterman: Hopelessly depressed. Ellis: About? Guterman: Uh... {Guterman 2006: Now that question, uh, that question right there, "About?," you see, Ellis just says, "About?," now that one question is aimed at identifying the A, the Activating event in rational emotive behavior therapy. Now let's see if the client—me—is able to do it.} Guterman: Now that I'm talking to you about it, it seems very strange. Ellis: Yeah. {Guterman 2006: There's silence. And notice how Ellis is comfortable with the silence or at least ostensibly he allows the silence to go on.} Guterman: I don't know what to say. Ellis: I can't hear you. Guterman: Yeah, I don't know... Ellis: You got to talk louder. Guterman: Yeah, I'm not saying anything. Ellis: Yeah. Guterman: I don't know, I don't know what to say. Ellis: Right. But what are you depressed about? {Guterman 2006: Okay. So, Ellis persists at asking, "What are you depressed about?" Again, aiming to identify the Activating event, the A in rational emotive behavior therapy.} Guterman: Well, a series of events. Ellis: Yeah. Guterman: One was I took my car in and I found out I had to, uh, spend over $600. Ellis: Alright, so that's unfortunate, but what are you telling yourself? That it's horrible? Or what? Guterman: Yeah. Pretty much so. {Guterman 2006: Okay, so Ellis, here, uses what he might consider to be more of the inelegant disputing method by parroting the rational belief which is that, "That's unfortunate, but not horrible, terrible, etcetera" versus the Socratic method, "Where is the evidence that it's horrible?" which he might use in some cases.} Ellis: Right. But you better go back to, "It's a royal pain in the ass, but I could live with it!." Guterman: Well... Ellis: Because you can. Guterman: Huh? Ellis: Because you can. Guterman: I know that and I know I'll have no choice. Tags: guterman albertellis albert_ellis counseling psychotherapy rebt therapy cognitive cognitivetherapy mental health |
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Rational Humorous Songs & Shame-Attacking Exercises in REBT Jeffrey T. Guterman, Ph.D. demonstrates a rational humorous song and shame-attacking exercise, techniques used in rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT). The use of the music from the song Misty qualifies as a "fair use" in keeping with U.S. copyright statute. As of this posting on October 19, 2006, see http://www.copyright.gov/fls/fl102.html for more information. REBT (Lyrics by Jeffrey T. Guetrman, Sung to the tune, Misty) Look at me I'm as hopeless and depressed as I can be But now I do understand, The cause of my misery Yes I understand what's causing my misery Walk my way And you'll hear me whining through the day Or it might be the sound of my heart, Breaking in two Cause I'm doing what I never knew I am demanding that my life be fulfilled In almost every way I can imagine Don't you realize how hopelessly I'm lost That's why I'm following you, Al Now, look at me I'm determined to overcome this misery I see exactly what it's going to take To make the changes I want to make It's just four letters And they are—REBT Tags: rebt counseling guterman psychotherapy shame rational |
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Jeffrey Guterman describes essence of Albert Ellis's REBT Jeffrey Guterman describes the essence of Albert Ellis's rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT). According to Albert Ellis's REBT, the main cause of emotional and behavioral disturbance is demandingness. Tags: rebt counseling guterman psychology psychotherapy ellis albertellis psychopathology mental mentalillness |
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Buddhism 001: Happiness, REBT Buddhism, the Four Noble Truths, happiness, Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) What is your story. Talk Your Way To Happiness. Tags: Buddha Buddhism happiness four noble truths REBT rational emotive behavior therapy |
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Rational Song as Shame-Attacking Exercise in REBT Jeffrey T. Guterman, Ph.D. demonstrates a rational song as a shame-attacking exercise, techniques used in rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT). The use of the music from the song Misty qualifies as a "fair use" in keeping with U.S. copyright statute. As of this posting on August 17, 2007, see http://www.copyright.gov/fls/fl102.html for more information. See http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BK7MSxKQHtY for longer version of this video. REBT (Lyrics by Jeffrey T. Guterman, Sung to the tune, Misty) Look at me I'm as hopeless and depressed as I can be But now I do understand, The cause of my misery Yes I understand what's causing my misery Walk my way And you'll hear me whining through the day Or it might be the sound of my heart, Breaking in two Cause I'm doing what I never knew I am demanding that my life be fulfilled In almost every way I can imagine Don't you realize how hopelessly I'm lost That's why I'm following you, Al Now, look at me I'm determined to overcome this misery I see exactly what it's going to take To make the changes I want to make It's just four letters And they are—REBT Tags: rebt shame guterman albertellis counseling psychotherapy |
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The Essence of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) Jeffrey Guterman describes the essence of Albert Ellis's Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT). According to Albert Ellis's REBT, the main cause of emotional and behavioral disturbance is demandingness. Tags: rebt albertellis counseling guterman jguterman cognitive |
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Te amo!!! REBT para la niña mas linda del mundo.... quiero decirte q te as ganado todo de mi te amo...xD de L.E.B.F Tags: pop |
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What is Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT)? A brief introduction to Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) which was created by Albert Ellis. Tags: rational emotive behavior therapy Albert Ellis rebt psychotherapy |
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RELAY - Broker Implementation Using Baby Steps A broker in a rural area describes how she is leading the implementation of RELAY in her brokerage using well planned and calculated baby steps. While there are some agents in her office who are advancing at an accelerated rate, this broker is implementing process changes in a methodical manner. Her approach is rigorous, slow, and deliberate. She is guiding her entire office along in a supportive manner. This approach is easy to emulate and represents one of many appropriate choices for leading change and implementing RELAY throughout a large office. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR 24x7 customer satisfaction real estate agent |
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RELAY - For Cowboys? Can Cowboys use RELAY? This agent describes a transaction in which she is a principal participant. Yes, Cowboys are using RELAY in the context of this transaction, to wrangle the documents and status effectively. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR 24x7 customer satisfaction real estate agent |
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RELAY - Learning How to Change Processes Sometimes, you may not comprehend all of the features that you have available to you at your fingertips when you make RELAY available to your office. This broker relates an anecdote which describes how RELAY provided the answer (provided, of course, that everyone remembered that RELAY was in use and available). With time, RELAY becomes second nature. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transactoin Management REBT REFN CAR broker agent real estate customer service clients |
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RELAY - Winning a Listing - Baby Boomers Winning a listing relationship in a competitive environment is a challenge. This agent shares her experience in using RELAY to help win a listing presentation with Baby Boomer clients who are embarking on a life filled with travel and adventure. She asserts that she would have not closed the relationship without RELAY's contribution to the marketing phase of the relationship. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR 24x7 customer satisfaction real estate agent |
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RELAY - I Don't Like Spiders! What does RELAY have to do with spiders? This broker describes how RELAY's online document, archive and transaction file access mitigates the need for her to search through boxes of archived files in a storage unit and thereby avoid unwelcome encounters with hairy spiders. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR 24x7 customer satisfaction real estate agent |
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RELAY - A Recalcitrant Agent This broker describes how she employed the features and functions of RELAY to modify the behavior of a recalcitrant agent. If you are a broker, the story that is told in this clip will sound very familiar. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transactoin Management REBT REFN CAR broker agent real estate customer service clients |
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RELAY - An Agent Retention Tool This broker describes how he is using RELAY to recruit and retain agents. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transactoin Management REBT REFN CAR broker agent real estate customer service clients |
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RELAY - I Am Not A Guru You don't need to be a technical guru or a member of Gen X or Gen Y to use RELAY effectively. This agent describes that if she can use RELAY, you can too! It is easy, straightforward and intuitive to use. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR 24x7 customer satisfaction real estate agent |
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RELAY - I Don't Have To Nag My Clients Assisting real estate clients to comply with deadlines is often difficult and requires a delicate balance in the relationship. This agent describes how she uses RELAY to assist her in managing that delicate relationship and to keep her clients on track with their transaction. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR 24x7 customer satisfaction real estate agent |
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RELAY - Doing Business with a Client in Korea Conducting a real estate transaction while a client is overseas can present unique challenges. This broker describes how his office is using RELAY to conduct an efficient transaction with a client in Korea. Faxes are eliminated in favor of immediate electronic file access. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR 24x7 customer satisfaction real estate agent |
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RELAY - Personal Filing System This agent describes how she is using RELAY as a personal filing system. This novel use demonstrates RELAY's flexibility and adaptability to many usage modes in an unconstrained manner. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR 24x7 customer satisfaction real estate agent |
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RELAY - Broker Intranet Site This broker describes a novel use of RELAY to create an internal brokerage intranet site. RELAY's subscription business model encourages novel use of the system. This clever application of the RELAY Transaction Management System can be emulated easily and demonstrates the flexibility of the application. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transactoin Management REBT REFN CAR broker agent real estate customer service clients |
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RELAY - My Office is Always Available to Me and my Clients An agent describes how her office, files and all of the necessary information is available to her 24 hours a day, seven days a week, no matter where she is. In this clip, she describes how she answered a very time critical client question without having to return to the office after hours. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR 24x7 customer satisfaction real estate agent |
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RELAY - Clients Love It! A real estate agent describes that her clients love using RELAY and value the extra service that she provides them through the RELAY Transaction Management application. RELAY is a significant augmentation to her business. Real Estate Business Technologies, LLC Email: info@rebt.com Phone: 866-736-REBT (866-736-7328) www.rebt.com Tags: RELAY Transaction Management REBT REFN CAR buyers sellers clients customer satisfaction real estate agent |